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But couples who openly swap Adult ready dating Rockford for a night of passionate sex with strangers, are becoming a growing trend in a sort of new sexual relationship revolution -- and those who swing say the rest of us monogamists are missing out. Forget the notion that swingers parties are full of middle-aged folks who are bored stiff by years of marriage.

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Some older people like going on cruises. Others hightail it to early-bird specials.

Then there are the ones who use their golden years to experiment sexually outside their relationship. Meet two such senior swingers, Mark and Deanna. Mark and Deanna, both in their mid-fifties, got married 5 years ago. Neither has children from any prior relationships. They live in Las Vegas, Nevada, Beautiful lady wants casual encounter Erie they enjoy walking their dogs, doing puzzles, and seeing new movies on date nights.

They also like going to places like The Green Door, a nearby night club that hosts various swingers' parties. To this couple, casual sex with strangers is a recreational activity just like any other. It was Mark's idea to swing.


He and Deanna had been married for 3 years, and while he was nervous to voice this desire, he thought it would be a good way to break up the monotony of marriage. He first suggested it in the midst of an intimate, candlelit dinner, but even in that setting, Deanna didn't exactly jump at the proposal.

I'm an open person, so for him I was willing to give it a shot because it's what made him happy. It took nearly six months after Deanna agreed to prepare and find a suitable event for them. Mark looked online for Married But Looking Real Sex Daleville Alabama right venue, and both were required to get STD testing in advance — along with bringing protection, a clean bill of health was a requirement from the party organizers. With the legwork done, Mark and Deanna headed to their first swingers' party.

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The mid-sized club they chose was set up like a standard cocktail party, but both were struck by the surprisingly homey vibe. Not surprisingly, however, both were still anxious. Online free adult dating in Waldron don't drink, so for me it took a bit longer to open up and talk to people.

After surveying the scene, each zeroed in on potential partners and struck up casual conversations.

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Normally when people first meet, discussions cover basics such as what you do and where you live. That's easy: sex. After exchanging a few pleasantries about their likes and dislikes with these new friends, Mark and Deanna headed Online cock Fairfax Minnesota separate rooms for the main event.

Within a few months, the couple had created a pattern. They go to a swingers' event every few weeks, which is frequently enough that they can now spot the "regulars," but not so frequently that they consider themselves part of that group.

They're allowed to sleep with anyone they choose and don't approve of each other's partners — but they do always talk about their experiences afterward. They attend a variety of parties.

Some are limited to middle-aged people or seniors only, while others include people of a variety of ages. Deanna prefers a variety of ages, even though she's not looking to be a cougar.

In contrast, Mark prefers the seniors-only soiree. They always leave together and — most importantly — they never interact with any of these sex partners outside of the club. They claim this rule keeps the experience from "seeping in" to their Mulberry TN bi horny wives at home. So far, their crowded sex life hasn't impacted their union negatively.

If anything, "It's better," Mark says. By not having such strict boundaries, we've opened up more to each other. If there are other couples out there who want to give swinging a whirl, the pair has some advice.

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